June 18, 1998: Dear diary....this evening I feel the need to write down
som thoughts concerning human ethics and relations within the realm of catbreeding.
Everyone is full of ideas and oppinions on how things should be done. This
definately also applies to the breeding and care of animals - cats, in this instance.
We've all heard the saying; "Everything is relative", but do we really think
about what it means? Everything we do and say, as well as what we see others do and say is
"colored" by the "glasses" we're wearing - relative to where we're
standing (our viewpoint).
It's not always easy to understand why others make certain decisions, care
differently for their pets, or act the way they do towards others. But does that make them
automatically wrong and us right? I personally don't think so, though it's easy for such
thoughts to "sneak" their way in every once in a while. Do we stop to think that
maybe others disagree with our decisions, or wonder why we do the things we do? It's sure
something worth thinking about.
We can accept that everyone is different - it's what gives our society color and
spice. Why can't we let this principle also apply to catbreeding?! Different personalities
and viewpoints can add a certain spice to the breeding world...if we'll let it!
We should also be able to accept that people make mistakes, and that most of us
have to learn from our own mistakes. Are we really willing to do this, without pointing
our finger at them? Do we want others to point at us if we should stumble along the way?
I don't know, sometimes I miss the time when we had one Birman...just as a
cuddly part of our family. I think also of why we decided to expand to breeding - because
we really "believed" in this beautiful breed, and felt we had something to
contribute. Sound familiar to anyone?.....probably to the majority of us!?!!
I recently saw something that I found interesting, and painfully true - it's
called "A Breeders Development"
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year
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Enthusiastic
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year
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Knows everything
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year
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Feels in a position to judge others
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year
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Thinks the judges at shows don't know what they're doing
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year
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Acquires a few more cats
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year
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Asks oneself why "the top" isn't reached yet
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year
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Starts listening to other breeders plans
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year
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Can admit and accept that one's own cats aren't perfect
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year
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Starts listening to good advice
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year
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Doesn't breed one's own queens with the most convenient,
"popular" stud available.
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year
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Has acquired real quality breeding cats.
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year
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Starts to understand....
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Now, some may smile or laugh at this, but I think that most of us (at least if
we're honest with ourselves) can relate to it!
"We're in this together" is a phrase that also applies to the wide
world of breeding. Though we may live in different countries, and have been breeding for a
shorter / longer period of time, we will all face similar problems and challenges with our
furry friends. Let's try to stick together instead of pulling away from each other!